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Les enfants aspirent à une certaine indépendance. Maria Montessori l’a compris en observant ses élèves. Sa philosophie qui préconise de donner aux enfants la liberté dans un cadre défini. Laissez l’enfant explorer le monde, découvrir les choses à son propre rythme et à sa manière. Mais comment les parents et les tuteurs peuvent-ils suivre l’enfant et les laisser faire les choses par eux-mêmes ?
Il s’avère que la manière dont on parle à notre enfant a un impact énorme sur la façon dont il se perçoit. Voilà quelques phrases pour renforcer la confiance de votre enfant.
1. « Tu l’as fait tout(e) seul(e) ! » Un simple « Tu l’as fait ! » peut avoir un grand effet. Ressentir un sentiment d’accomplissement est extrêmement motivant et incite les enfants à entreprendre des tâches encore plus difficiles. Par exemple, lorsque votre enfant apprend à verser un verre de jus d’orange sans en renverser une goutte, c’est le moment de s’arrêter et de célébrer.
2. « Veux-tu essayer ? » Lorsque vous essayez d’enseigner une nouvelle compétence à votre enfant, montrez d’abord comment faire. Ensuite, demandez : « Veux-tu essayer ? » Rappelez-vous que votre enfant est libre de refuser. Cependant, chaque fois qu’il observe, donnez-lui l’occasion d’essayer. Cette invitation montre à votre enfant que vous appréciez son aide.
3. »Tu progresses vraiment bien. » La méthode Montessori met l’accent sur la motivation intrinsèque et l’état d’esprit de croissance. Il est important de repenser la façon dont vous félicitez votre enfant. Si vous approuvez rapidement le résultat sans valoriser le processus, cela va à l’encontre de la motivation intrinsèque. Au lieu de cela, commentez combien il a travaillé dur ou s’est concentré sur la tâche, comment il a été résilient même lorsque c’était difficile. Cela lui enseigne qu’il peut accomplir tout ce qu’il entreprend.
4. »Dis-moi comment tu aimerais que je t’aide. » Combien de fois avez-vous interrompu votre enfant alors qu’il essayait de faire quelque chose pour le faire à sa place ? « Laisse-moi faire » est une phrase qui limite leur potentiel, car l’enfant se sent incapable. Encouragez en lui demandant « Quelle partie puis-je t’aider ? » . Cela est bien mieux que de prendre les rênes à leur place.
En conclusion, renforcer la confiance de votre enfant en utilisant les principes de la pédagogie Montessori leur donnera confiance en lui et le courage de persévérer. En modifiant votre façon de parler avec votre enfant, vous pouvez adopter un ton encourageant, afin qu’il ressente votre amour et votre soutien sans se sentir incapable. En retour, ils deviendront des adultes indépendants.
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